If you also are struggling with understanding your child's difficult behavior, as a parent, it's important to approach these situations with compassionate curiosity.
By taking the time to understand why your child is behaving the way they are, you can respond with the right words and actions to promote healing and growth.
Since some parents who come to see me have a struggle with their children and even to bring their adolescent child for a consultation and when you find out the issues behind the protest of the child I thought that this sharing would be helpful.
Parental love is a powerful force that can guide you in this process. Let go of the idea that you already know everything about your child and strive to accept them unconditionally. That’s more wiser and healthier because this open-minded approach can go a long way in healing past mistakes and misjudgments.
But this same attitude is just as important to parallel dealing with yourself as an adult with your own difficult behaviors before approaching the helpless child.
Developing a new view of yourself goes against a lifetime of conditioning, but it's possible with the help of right skills and mindset, that will reflect on your children.
One of these skills is the capacity to notice your own thoughts and behavior. Each time you make a critical or judgmental comment against yourself, or your child, take note. Notice when anxiety takes over and when your behavior doesn't align with your long-term goals. Then, just as you would with your child, ask yourself what meanings, messages, or needs might be driving your behavior.
Dealing with difficult behavior isn't easy, but with compassionate curiosity and the right skills, it's possible to move forward in a positive direction.
The methods and techniques that I use are highly effective that can help both children and adults heal faster from a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues in the shortest time because time can never be re-earned.
To help my clients I use a combination of highly effective techniques and is so effective that only one , two or three sessions is maximum you require to have a permanent effect.